Thursday, March 27, 2008
i forgot where i saw this before, but i have to say this:a bad conversation is like bad sex - stale, cursory and dry (HAHA)
sure, practise could bring you somewhere but really, some people are just innate conversationalists (and that includes great listeners). everyone has a role to play - the listener, the speaker, the jester, the jested, the PR person, etc. and the bad conversationalist just sticks out like chewbacca amongst a sea of botak army boys. strange analogy, but you get the drift.
eeks to bad conversations, spare me before i whip out my royal mandate to axe you with my invincible fu3 tou2.
Friday, March 21, 2008
im damn damn damn damn damn bogged down by an abominable amount of work so kinda pardon me if i seem to have done a houdini to any of you recently.of course, this does not apply to diana/paul/pat/my other lovely project members/and my rock-steady IBM. haha
will be freer during exam period! (i think)
anyways, items of lust: ccskye(!!), fendi(an unlikely but really cute product from them), frey wille (caviar-league, exorbitant, makes-me-foam-profusely, nice shit):
Friday, March 14, 2008
hello love, you keep me alive (:"when the oceans rise, and thunders roar,
i will soar with You, above the storm"
- Still, Hillsongs -
Thursday, March 13, 2008
the asian work cultureas an individual brought up an in relatively bi-cultural manner throughout my entire life, the asian work culture baffles me alot, in many instances.
tell me, what is deference to a singaporean?
sure, we are so competent when it comes to rattling off the "right" definitions, doing the "right" things, acting the "right" way. yet, do we really know what that means?
its like a circus act really, all so when senior management comes down for a simple visit. an affront to the senior management's intellect and direct lampoon of what many of us think is deference - the RSM runs helter skelter, with such woe in her eyes, all over the shop floor snapping at everyone (the lowest life form), nit-picking, curtly ordering us around (i refuse to acknowledge it as legitimate delegation of work). yes, i am only a pathetic promoter, but aren't all humans made of a same mold, like the Bible says?
strange, she only starts to kan chiong when authority is near - what a farce.
ian (my prof) was so damn right when he said the work culture in singapore is bloody stifling when intrusive supervision is the norm.
deference is not fear, its respect. and may i add, its earned, not coerced or conditioned.
ps: unfortunately, i cannot put down the name of the organisation which im part-timing at, in case i get involved in a lawsuit. or more seriously, a catfight with this abominable female RSM. haha. /meow. shows cat claws.
but from the bottom of my heart, if i really get to work in this organisation (since ive applied for a position there), i sincerely wish one day when im at the management level, i get to change this. this feigned deference is really very irrational.
yes, idealistic i know but im sure He will help me out with this.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
the fucking drilling next door (distance approximately 2.5-3 metres next to my house) is making my blood boil.really, i think i will evaporate soon if they continue anymore.
this whole puerile competition for the new, newer and newest.
facades.
we all love them, huh.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
hello stress.)(@*%(1065(*@#%!^%^%_+@)$*()!)_ ?!?!!!
wo3 hui4 checkmate ni3. heh heh.
Monday, March 10, 2008
i like to tumble and tuck myself in the pockets of shades of gray.absolutes unnerve me. because they discomfit this system of thinking that i am most accustomed to.
so does the cold weather, on a lighter note. haha.
Friday, March 07, 2008
farking hate cleaning up citations - URGH!!!using the social-occupational hierarchy as an analogy, its worse than a toilet cleaners job. especially when its a report worth almost one year of work.
fark.
Monday, March 03, 2008
im not dead! will be blogging sporadically to assert my existence till the exam period - which renders me very free somehow (strange, isnt it).anyways, heres me and my new (actually not that new already) haircut: